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You’ve probably read my story, anyway I need someone to think out of the box for me.

I’ve been asking Ex-partner to move out because I can’t forgive and forget what’s happened. And his lack of accountability to be honest to. Him wanting to rug sweep. I’ve told him multiple times and for weeks just go back to the other woman. Because you ruined our lives for it you may aswell continue.

Now financially he can’t get a place, in a few months yes but right now no. His options are to go to Bil but environment is drink fuelled so not ideal. Or to actually go back to OW.

I feel that the fact that he has considered going back to the OW is in fact proof that there’s something still there. Or am I over thinking it all? Because in my head he should be saying no there’s nothing for me and OW I’m not interested?

He has said that if I don’t want a relationship with him and want him to leave. If he goes back to OW shouldn’t concern me because I want him gone. Which this statement I agree with and know I can’t dictate where he goes but feel this is showing that there’s still feelings involved with the OW for it to even be an option.

Or I am seeing this totally wrong? How do interpret this?

Well, you’re kicking him out, he can’t afford his own place, BIL is no good.

Sounds like OW is his only option. (Or the street)

Not sure you should make too much of his taking the only option he has.

Or, can you forgive and forget? What does he need to do?

Best wishes.