Hunter235 (original poster new member #71291) posted at 8:30 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2025
Hello again. Thanks for your responses. You all are right. I'm being too nice and already gearing my way towards rug sweeping. My resolve waivered when she cried, begged, pleaded and pouted all day after I confronted her.
I will read/re-read the resources all of you guys suggested. I checked her phone daily and there have been no new texts from this guy. She also has not changed her password on her phone or deleted the incriminating text chain. I told her that would only further my suspicion. I'm not naive enough to believe she doesn't have other ways of communicating.
I will still contact a divorce attorney and notify the OBS. I have digital copies of Cheating In A Nutshell and A reference not approved by site. I will finish those two. I'm used to being strict in my job as a LEO but I'm a big wimp when it comes to my WW it seems. Thanks again.
[This message edited by SI Staff at 10:31 AM, Friday, July 4th]
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 10:52 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2025
Maybe wait until the anger phase kicks in. Then you won’t be so nice. 
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
